Monday

Git Along Lil' Doggy!


Northeast of Denver and outside the little town of New Raymer, Colorado lay 10,000 acres of picturesque ranch land where over a 1000+ head of cattle and 120+ horses roam. Colorado Cattle Company and Guest Ranch lets you learn to rope and ride and feel like part of the family. It feels just like home.

I came to this place as a city slicker, I left with my heart belonging to the land. Turn to the left or right and you can see for the next two weeks. Listen to the mooing of the mama cows calling to their wayward newborn calves. Soft breezes and cool mist greet the morning sun. You could get lost out here, and find yourself without even looking.


Teamwork is essential in driving a herd. Not one beast is left behind. Strangers became partners, following and giving direction and guidance to the cattle and each other. Our days began at 6am to feed and sort the horses. Off to the tack room to saddle up and prepare for the day. Working until dusk driving herds, riding the range and working the land. No better way to spend a day.

The hard days work shows on your boots and your face, while the joy in your heart shines through the rough. By the sweat of my brow shall I eat my bread, all the days of my life. Never before have I paid to work so hard and gained so much in return. The lessons you learn with just you, the wind, the land and your horse are invaluable. Priceless and timeless. Humbling and glorious.

There was always time for laughter, joking and nicknames. Cowboy School taught me how to rope a calf, called heeling. Barrel racing and obstacle courses taught me horsemanship and control. Do you know how to change direction midstep while trotting? I do. Lessons on cutting out a single cow from the herd proved a requirement when it came time to tag the newborns with their signature eartag and doctor them with vaccinations and penicillin.

Mama cow did not like her newborn babe being roped by cowboys and tagged. Riders held off the mama while the men on foot took care of the calf and made sure it stays healthy and safe. Eartags link calf to mama and designate which herd each cow belongs to. Cows are bought and sold and can have more than one brand. This ranch leases its land to a handful of cattle owners. Separating the herds is essential for success and healthy cows.

Some pictures are worth a thousand words, and a couple hundred rounds. Shooting lessons and marksmanship tourneys got my attention and request early on. It's not everyday I get to wear boots and hold a rifle. Girls with Guns. Smokin' Hot!

Beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, but it is not hard to find here. The dark, sweet eyes of my horse, Sally, show me her understanding and wisdom in perfect clarity. There is much that she can teach me about ranch life and life in general. If only I knew what her eyes had seen. If only I could feel what she has felt and done what she has done, I would be much wiser and more aware of the gift that life is.

We were well taken care of with lunch brought out to us on the trail and buffet's for every meal. Everyone is treated like family and the house and ranch are open 24 hours. Saddles are checked and double checked for safety, while the wranglers made sure we were all comfortable and getting along with our mounts. It was all very safe and well organized. Even a high maintenance city girl like me felt safe and well taken care of.

A Farrier is one who shoes horses, taking great care to clean, trim and treat each foot with special attention. A horse can be made lame with one wrong nail, so a steady hand and immense knowledge of horses is required. Watching a beautiful red Bay horse get her manicure and pedicure was quite a treat. The Farrier served in the United States Marine Corps and had spent time in my hometown. Even out here, at the edge of industrialization, the world is still small and vast at the same time.


Good friends can be made in an instant and last a lifetime. Sometime you just click with people, then find out how much you have in common. From two different sides of the Atlantic, Miss Lindsay and I found each other and hit it off. My partner in crime, my shooting buddy, my photographer, my commiserator, my enabler, my lifeguard, cheerleader and inside joke getter. Shaky hand thing (doesn't quite come across the same in print, but she knows what I mean!)

New horses were bought on Thursday and we tried them out on Friday. We each got to name our horse. This gorgeous sandy blonde Palomino will forever be known as Cheeks, after me. It is quite an honor to name a horse and know that wranglers will introduce future guests to my girl. I know they will find her sweet spirit endearing and she will show them the beauty of the land.


A Swede, a Valley Girl, A Brit and a Redneck, cracking jokes and taking names. Some people are in your life for a minute, or just a few days and those memories last a lifetime. With all that I learned, I realize how little I know. Time to open my horizons and drink in the world around me. Same time next year. See you there!

Saturday

Welcome to the Caribbean!

After hopping 3 planes, 2 delays, a treacherous taxi ride and a ferry; we finally made it to paradise! Cinnamon Bay, St John, US Virgin Islands. D and I never had a honeymoon, so after 7 1/2 years of wedded bliss, we decide it's our turn to to get away. 5 nights camping at Cinnamon Bay, 2 nights at the Marriott resort on St. Thomas. Not too shabby.


With water as clear as a picture window and as warm as a bath, how could you not enjoy yourself? Our first night we set up camp and played on the beach in the moonlight. The breeze envelopes my senses with sweet salt air and the sand is as soft as baker's sugar. No need for sleeping bags here, the air is my blanket. We spend our morning at the local open air cafe, watching the kitchen kitties run from table to table patiently waiting for their share of breakfast.


Snorkeling in this water is like swimming in a divine fish tank. Corals of all shapes and color, fish is bright blues and yellow flit past in their weightless dance. (underwater pictures to come) The ocean floor is teeming with life, even in the shallowest of bays.

The sun can be brutal here and my creamy skin quickly turned red, so... a t-shirt to protect my sizzled shoulders. Unfortunately it left my booty ripe for the suns rays. Ouch!



Kayaked up to our own private beach between Maho Point and Francis Bay. That's Mary Point in the background. Gorgeous and huge sea turtles munch on sea grass on the floor of the bay. Evening walk on the beach, full moon shadows on the white sand. Watching stars wink into existence as high tide washes away all proof of the day, preparing the shore for new discoveries tomorrow.

To be continued...




Tuesday

Finally

9:40pm and I'm leaving work. I guess that's the price you pay for vacation. It'll be worth it.

Almost there...

Sunshine entices me to abandon never-ending responsibilities and frolic through a grass field, picking wildflowers and playing with the breeze.

The taunt of soft waves lapping upon white sand shores, tickle my mind away from paper and electric leashes.

Running my hand along a smooth horse's coat, scents of alfalfa and new hay fill my senses and create visions of riding off into the sunset.

Comic of the Day

This is soo me!

Monday

Hmm...?

The past is just practice...

Comic of the Day


New Awesome Webcomics Here. Thanks Dan!

Sunday

Play Ball!

Saturday was double-header night at the Charlotte Knights stadium. Our new home team, the Knights, played the Toledo Mud Hens. Yes, the same Toledo Mud Hens that Klinger from M.A.S.H. always rooted for! The Knights won the first game and the Dirt Chickens won the second. Proceeds from tickets sales and a silent auction during the game went to Charlotte Radiology to fund breast cancer research, to the tune of over $12,000!
D played his well-earned role as token male
to the group of lovely ladies below.

Andrea, me, Darci and Kiki.
Yes, I am sporting my Padres jersey.
I have to represent, even in the South!

We each got free pink baseballs and ate way too many sweets!
Cotton Candy is a must at all baseball games!

The Knights wore pink jerseys in support of breast cancer research. The jerseys were auctioned during the game to raise additional funds.


Even the Knights mascot, Homer the Dragon, showed his support.

The national anthem was sung by the boys and girls choir from a local elementary school and the crowd sang along. The after game fireworks were awesome and D & I played frisbee in parking lot as we waited for the sea of brakelights to meander on down the road. It was a great night of friends, baseball, sugar-highs, home town hero's, home runs, cheering, hot dogs, booing and people-watching. We're already looking into season tickets. See you at the game!

Friday

Quote for the Day

"Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs,
even though checked by failure...
than to rank those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much,
because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
- Theodore Roosevelt

Stay-at-Home Mom Worth Nearly $117,000 a Year

Just for you Britt, From FOXNews...

If a stay-at-home mom could be compensated in dollars rather than personal satisfaction and unconditional love, she'd rake in a nifty sum of nearly $117,000 a year.
That's according to a pre-Mother's Day study released Thursday by Salary.com, a Waltham, Mass.-based firm that studies workplace compensation.
The eighth annual survey calculated a mom's market value by studying pay levels for 10 job titles with duties that a typical mom performs, ranging from housekeeper and day care center teacher to van driver, psychologist and chief executive officer.
This year, the annual salary for a stay-at-home mom would be $116,805, while a working mom who also juggles an outside job would get $68,405 for her motherly duties.
One stay-at-home mom said the six-figure salary sounds a little low.
"I think a lot of people think we sit and home and have a lot of fun and don't do a lot of work," said Samantha Russell, a Fremont, N.H., mother who left her job as pastry chef to raise two boys, ages 2 and 4. "But they should try cleaning their house with little kids running around and messing it up right after them."
The biggest driver of a mom's theoretical salary is the amount of overtime pay she'd receive for working more than 40 hours a week. The 18,000 moms surveyed about their typical week reported working 94.4 hours — meaning they'd be spending more than half their working hours on overtime.
Working moms reported an average 54.6 hour "mom work week" besides the hours they spent at paying jobs.
Russell agreed her job as a stay-at-home mom is more than full-time. But she said her "job" brings intangible benefits she wouldn't enjoy in the workplace.
"The rewards aren't monetary, but it's a reward knowing that they're safe and happy," Russell said of her sons. "It's worth it all."

Tuesday

Right in My Own Backyard

As D and I enjoyed a peaceful Sunday afternoon in our backyard, I was struck by the lush and beautiful landscape surrounding me. Having spent most of my life in a chaparral desert, Spring growth is new to me. I am continually astounded by how quickly leaves sprout and flowers bloom in this rainforest-like place.

White roses climb, bringing life to an old trellis.

Wild red strawberries dot the green leaves.

New maple saplings reach toward the sun.

Irises and grapevines play with the breeze.

Clover buds shoot up from their lucky beds.

Our forest canopy.

Flowers everywhere!

Symmetry

Pale peach Irises seduce the buzzing bees.

Tiny white blooms peak out from dark green coverings

Queen Cleo reigns.

Princess P.B. commands
in her backyard kingdom.

Reading List

My unquenchable thirst for knowledge and short attention span lead me to devour books with an insatiable appetite. Recently I have had two main focus areas of reading, surrounded by various offshoots. The Classics and Nora Roberts. The Classics feed my needs for knowledge, language, literature, conversation and educational lapses. Nora Roberts fill in my female desires for romance, adventure, struggle and rescue. The steamy scenes certainly don't hurt either. Neither does the fact that I can read one of her books in about 2 days.

To focus on the Classics for a moment, I have been compiling a list that has grown faster than my actual reading has whittled down. I would love to know what your favorite books are, or any recommendations you might have.
Emily's Desired Reading List
  • Pride and Prejudice
  • Catcher in the Rye
  • Little Women
  • Atlas Shrugged
  • Slaughterhouse Five
  • On the Road
  • Moby Dick
  • Emma
  • Catch-22
  • Go Tell It On the Mountain
  • One Flew over the Cuckoo's Nest
  • The Bell Jar
  • The Grapes of Wrath
  • The Time Machine
  • Alice's Adventures in Wonderland
  • Dune
  • Beowulf
  • Count of Monte Cristo
  • Sherlock Holmes
  • Lady Chatterley's Lover
  • Women in Love
  • Robinson Crusoe
  • 1984
  • Frankenstein
  • Gone With the Wind
  • Canterbury Tales
  • The Three Musketeers
  • Narnia Series
  • Les Miserables
  • The Odyssey
  • Clash of the Titans
  • Tale of Two Cities
  • A Christmas Carol
  • The Sound and the Fury
  • Sons and Lovers
  • A thousand other books, waiting patiently on the shelf for me to discover.

Come spend some time in another time and place with me.

You never know what you will find.

Friday

Sonnet of the Day


Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?

Thou art more lovely and more temperate.

Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,

And summer's lease hath all too short a date.

Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,

And often is his gold complexion dimmed,

And every fair from fair sometime declines,

By chance, or nature's changing course untrimmed.

But thy eternal summer shall not fade,

Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow'st,

Nor shall death brag thou wander'st in his shade,

When in eternal lines to time thou grow'st,

So long as men can breathe, or eyes can see,

So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.

-William Shakespeare

Painting: "Summer Wind" by Vladimir Volegov

Wednesday

Quote for the Day

Spend the Afternoon.
You can't take it with you.
-Annie Dillard
writer

Monday

Rain

Rain falls in torrents past glassy eyed cube dwellers

Wind shreds the clouds to strips, blocking the ever present sun

Feeble rays desire to penetrate the misty shield

Stillness reigns

Sunday

Secret

Funniest PostSecret I've seen in a while...


hmm..

The rains came down, and the floods came up. And the house on the sand washed away...

Friday

10 Things You May Not Know About Me

Vanilla is my favorite lotion scent.
I've had a Superbowl ring on my finger.
I have hitchiker thumbs.
High pitched screeching sounds are of the devil and I cannot abide them.
I love roadtrips.
I yowl like an Indian brave at concerts and sporting events, loud too!
I'm scared of the dark.
I'm glad I got all my partying out early.
I'm scared to go headfirst off a diving board.
I know every word to Devil Went Down to Georgia.